I believe photography is about capturing the joy of life. It doesn't take long to realize time goes way too fast....Document it with the loves of your life. It should not be stressful, it should not be about losing weight, it should not be about the coolest location, and it should not be about how you look to others. It should be about you having a good time, having a coffee or beer and swinging your kids or kissing your new wife or flipping that hair your senior year-- only to remember years later that sweet moment and the very good light.